We can tell our values by looking at our checkbook stubs.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Value, Money
Self-esteem is the basis of any democracy
—Gloria Steinem
Men should think twice before making widow hood woman’s only path to power.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Power
For me, writing is the only thing that passes the three tests of metier: (1) when I’m doing it, I don’t feel that I should be doing something else instead; (2) it produces a sense of accomplishment and, once in a while, pride; and (3) it’s frightening.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Authors & Writing, Aptness, Writing, Writers, Success, Appropriateness
The family is the basic cell of government: it is where we are trained to believe that we are human beings or that we are chattel, it is where we are trained to see the sex and race divisions and become callous to injustice even if it is done to ourselves, to accept as biological a full system of authoritarian government.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Family
Law and justice are not always the same. When they aren’t, destroying the law may be the first step toward changing it.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Justice
The only thing I can’t stand is discomfort.
—Gloria Steinem
Self-esteem isn’t everything; it’s just that there’s nothing without it
—Gloria Steinem
Planning ahead is a measure of class. The rich and even the middle class plan for future generations, but the poor can plan ahead only a few weeks or days.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Planning
However sugarcoated and ambiguous, every form of authoritarianism must start with a belief in some group’s greater right to power, whether that right is justified by sex, race, class, religion or all four. However far it may expand, the progression inevitably rests on unequal power and airtight roles within the family.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Control, Authority
Happy or unhappy, families are all mysterious. We have only to imagine how differently we would be described – and will be, after our deaths—by each of the family members who believe they know us.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Unhappiness, Family
Any woman who chooses to behave like a full human being should be warned that the armies of the status quo will treat her as something of a dirty joke. That’s their natural and first weapon. She will need her sisterhood.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Sex
For much of the female half of the world, food is the first signal of our inferiority. It lets us know that our own families may consider female bodies to be less deserving, less needy, less valuable.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Food, Eating
I’ve yet to be on a campus where most women weren’t worrying about some aspect of combining marriage, children, and a career. I’ve yet to find one where many men were worrying about the same thing
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Worry
Hope is a very unruly emotion.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Hope
America is an enormous frosted cupcake in the middle of millions of starving people.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: The Poor, Poverty
We teach what we need to learn.
—Gloria Steinem
Pornography is the instruction. Rape is the practice, battered women are the practice, and battered children are the practice.
—Gloria Steinem
The act of acting morally is behaving as if everything we do matters.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Ethics
Clinging to the past is the problem. Embracing change is the answer.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: The Past, Past, Change
I believe a unique core self is born into every human being; the result of millennia of environment adn heredity combined in an unpredictable way that could never happen before or again.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Being True to Yourself
Far too many people are looking for the right person, instead of trying to be the right person.
—Gloria Steinem
Without leaps of imagination, or dreaming, we lose the excitement of possibilities. Dreaming, after all, is a form of planning.
—Gloria Steinem
Someone once asked me why women don’t gamble as much as men do, and I gave the common-sensical reply that we don’t have as much money. That was a true but incomplete answer. In fact, women’s total instinct for gambling is satisfied by marriage.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Gambling
A pedestal is as much a prison as any small space.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Perspective
The future depends entirely on what each of us does every day.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Future
I do not like to write – I like to have written.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Writing
It’s clear that most American children suffer too much mother and too little father.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Parents, Fathers, Parenting
Evil is obvious only in retrospect.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Evil
I have yet to hear a man ask for advice on how to combine marriage and a career.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Career, Advice
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