Real love is a pilgrimage. It happens when there is no strategy, but it is very rare because most people are strategists.
—Anita Brookner
Topics: Love
For once a thing is known, it can never be unknown. It can only be forgotten.
—Anita Brookner
Not everyone is born to fulfill an heroic role. The only realistic ambition is to live in the present. And sometimes, quite often in fact, this is more than enough to keep one busy. Time, which was once squandered, must now be given over to the actual, the possible, and perhaps that evanescent hope of a good outcome which never deserts one, and which should never be abandoned.
—Anita Brookner
A man can go from being a lover to being a stranger in three moves flat but a woman under the guise of friendship will engage in acts of duplicity which come to light very much later. There are different species of self-justification.
—Anita Brookner
Topics: Men & Women, Lovers
The lessons taught in great books are misleading. The commerce in life is rarely so simple and never so just.
—Anita Brookner
Topics: Reading, Books
The essence of romantic love is that wonderful beginning, after which sadness and impossibility may become the rule.
—Anita Brookner
Topics: Romance
What is interesting about self-analysis is that it leads nowhere—it is an art form in itself.
—Anita Brookner
Topics: Identity
All good fortune is a gift of the gods, and you don’t win the favor of the ancient gods by being good, but by being bold.
—Anita Brookner
Topics: God, Fortune
Time misspent in youth is sometimes all the freedom one ever has.
—Anita Brookner
Topics: Youth
Love imposes obligations and these are constant. An intermittent lover is no use to a person of dignity and courage.
—Anita Brookner
You have no idea how promising the world begins to look once you have decided to have it all for yourself. And how much healthier your decisions are once they become entirely selfish.
—Anita Brookner
Topics: Selfishness
People feel at home with low moral standards. It is scruples that put them off.
—Anita Brookner
Romanticism is not just a mode; it literally eats into every life. Women will never get rid of just waiting for the right man.
—Anita Brookner
Topics: Romance
You never know what you will learn till you start writing. Then you discover truths you never knew existed.
—Anita Brookner
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