You cannot make yourself feel something you do not feel, but you can make yourself do right in spite of your feelings.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Right, Action, Feelings
There are many ways of breaking a heart. Stories were full of hearts being broken by love, but what really broke a heart was taking away its dream—whatever that dream might be.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Dreams
A good marriage is one which allows for change and growth in the individuals and in the way they express their love.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Age, Love, Marriage
Nothing in life is as good as the marriage of true minds between man and woman. As good? It is life itself.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: The Mind, Mind
Love alone could waken love.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Love
It is better to be first with an ugly woman than the hundredth with a beauty.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Beauty
Order is the shape upon which beauty depends.
—Pearl S. Buck
The person who tries to live alone will not succeed as a human being. His heart withers if it does not answer another heart. His mind shrinks away if he hears only the echoes of his own thoughts and finds no other inspiration.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Solitude, Living, Success, Friendship
Our society must make it right and possible for old people not to fear the young or be deserted by them, for the test of a civilization is the way that it cares for its helpless members.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Respect, Philanthropy, Service
All things are possible until they are proved impossible—even the impossible may only be so, as of now.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Positive Attitudes, Health, Optimism, Possibilities
To know what one can have and to do with it, being prepared for no more, is the basis of equilibrium.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Change
Don’t wait for moods. You’ll accomplish nothing.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Courage
Self-expression must pass into communication for its fulfillment.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Communication
The young do not know enough to be prudent, and therefore they attempt the impossible—and achieve it, generation after generation.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Youth, Goals, Time, Ignorance, Action, Possibilities, Authors & Writing
Be born anywhere, little embryo novelist, but do not be born under the shadow of a great creed, not under the burden of original sin, not under the doom of Salvation.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Authors & Writing
Love dies only when growth stops.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Growth
Perhaps one has to be very old before one learns how to be amused rather than shocked.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Age, Pleasure, Aging
Life without idealism is empty indeed. We just hope or starve to death.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Hope, Ideals, Ideal
The bitterest creature under heaven is the wife who discovers that her husband’s bravery is only bravado, that his strength is only a uniform, that his power is but a gun in the hands of a fool.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Marriage, Husbands
The truth is always exciting. Speak it, then. Life is dull without it.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Truth
None who have always been free can understand the terrible fascinating power of the hope of freedom to those who are not free.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Hope, Freedom
I don’t wait for moods. You accomplish nothing if you do that. Your mind must know it has got to get down to earth.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Work, Attitude, Accomplishment, Mind
Like Confucius of old, I am so absorbed in the wonder of earth and the life upon it that I cannot think of heaven and the angels. I have enough for this life. If there is no other life, then this one has been enough to make it worth being born, myself a human being.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Faith, Death, Nature
We must have hope or starve to death.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Hope, Aspirations
We need to restore the full meaning of that old word, duty. It is the other side of rights.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Responsibility
To find joy in work is to discover the fountain of youth.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Work
Every great mistake has a halfway moment, a split second when it can be recalled and perhaps remedied.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Mistakes
Men would rather be starving and free than fed in bonds.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Slavery
The truly creative mind in any field is no more than this: a human creature born abnormally, inhumanly sensitive. To him, a touch is a blow, a sound is a noise, a misfortune is a tragedy, a joy is an ecstasy, a friend is a lover, a lover is a god, and failure is death. Add to this cruelly delicate organism the overpowering necessity to create, create, create—so that without the creating of music or poetry or books or buildings or something of meaning, his very breath is cut off from him. He must create, must pour out creation. By some strange, unknown, inward urgency he is not really alive unless he is creating.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Creativity
Hunger makes a thief of any man.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Justice, Poverty
The lack of emotional security of our American young people is due, I believe, to their isolation from the larger family unit. No two people—no mere father and mother—as I have often said, are enough to provide emotional security for a child. He needs to feel himself one in a world of kinfolk, persons of variety in age and temperament, and yet allied to himself by an indissoluble bond which he cannot break if he could, for nature has welded him into it before he was born.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Family
Nothing and no one can destroy the Chinese people. They are relentless survivors.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Nationality, Nationalities, Nationalism, Nation
Man was lost if he went to a usurer, for the interest ran faster than a tiger upon him.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Debt
Some are kissing mothers and some are scolding mothers, but it is love just the same—and most mothers kiss and scold together.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Family, Mothers, Parents, Mother, Motherhood
People on the whole are very simpleminded in whatever country one finds them. They are so simple as to take literally, more often than not, the things their leaders tell them.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Understanding
To eat bread without hope is still slowly to starve to death.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Hope, Aspirations
I love people. I love my family, my children… but inside myself is a place where I live all alone and that’s where you renew your springs that never dry up.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Self-Knowledge, Identity, Solitude
We have every reason to look forward into the future with hope and excitement. Fear nothing and no one. Work honestly. Be good, be happy. And remember that each of you is unique, your soul your own, irreplaceable, and individual in the miracle of your mortal frame.
—Pearl S. Buck
The secret of joy in work is contained in one word – excellence. To know how to do something well is to enjoy it.
—Pearl S. Buck
What is a neglected child? He is a child not planned for, not wanted. Neglect begins, therefore, before he is born.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Children
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