Order is the shape upon which beauty depends.
—Pearl S. Buck
Perhaps one has to be very old before one learns how to be amused rather than shocked.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Aging, Age, Pleasure
There is, of course, a difference between what a man seizes and what he really possesses.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Possessions
The person who tries to live alone will not succeed as a human being. His heart withers if it does not answer another heart. His mind shrinks away if he hears only the echoes of his own thoughts and finds no other inspiration.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Solitude, Living, Friendship, Success
I love people. I love my family, my children… but inside myself is a place where I live all alone and that’s where you renew your springs that never dry up.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Identity, Self-Knowledge, Solitude
Like Confucius of old, I am so absorbed in the wonder of earth and the life upon it that I cannot think of heaven and the angels. I have enough for this life. If there is no other life, then this one has been enough to make it worth being born, myself a human being.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Nature, Death, Faith
Some are kissing mothers and some are scolding mothers, but it is love just the same—and most mothers kiss and scold together.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Motherhood, Family, Parents, Mothers, Mother
If you want to understand today, you have to search yesterday.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Understanding
I don’t wait for moods. You accomplish nothing if you do that. Your mind must know it has got to get down to earth.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Mind, Attitude, Accomplishment, Work
The bitterest creature under heaven is the wife who discovers that her husband’s bravery is only bravado, that his strength is only a uniform, that his power is but a gun in the hands of a fool.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Marriage, Husbands
Life without idealism is empty indeed. We just hope or starve to death.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Ideal, Ideals, Hope
The lack of emotional security of our American young people is due, I believe, to their isolation from the larger family unit. No two people—no mere father and mother—as I have often said, are enough to provide emotional security for a child. He needs to feel himself one in a world of kinfolk, persons of variety in age and temperament, and yet allied to himself by an indissoluble bond which he cannot break if he could, for nature has welded him into it before he was born.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Family
Once the “what” is decided, the “how” always follows. We must not make the “how” an excuse for not facing and accepting the “what”.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Decisions
To know what one can have and to do with it, being prepared for no more, is the basis of equilibrium.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Change
What is a neglected child? He is a child not planned for, not wanted. Neglect begins, therefore, before he is born.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Children
You cannot make yourself feel something you do not feel, but you can make yourself do right in spite of your feelings.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Action, Right, Feelings
The secret of joy in work is contained in one word – excellence. To know how to do something well is to enjoy it.
—Pearl S. Buck
A good marriage is one which allows for change and growth in the individuals and in the way they express their love.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Marriage, Age, Love
We need to restore the full meaning of that old word, duty. It is the other side of rights.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Responsibility
To serve is beautiful, but only if it is done with joy and a whole heart and a free mind.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Service
Growth itself contains the germ of happiness.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Growth, One liners, Joy
We must have hope or starve to death.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Hope, Aspirations
Every great mistake has a halfway moment, a split second when it can be recalled and perhaps remedied.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Mistakes
Man was lost if he went to a usurer, for the interest ran faster than a tiger upon him.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Debt
We send missionaries to China so the Chinese can get to heaven, but we won’t let them into our country.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Heaven
In this unbelievable universe in which we live there are no absolutes. Even parallel lines, reaching into infinity, meet somewhere yonder.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Space
We have every reason to look forward into the future with hope and excitement. Fear nothing and no one. Work honestly. Be good, be happy. And remember that each of you is unique, your soul your own, irreplaceable, and individual in the miracle of your mortal frame.
—Pearl S. Buck
Self-expression must pass into communication for its fulfillment.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Communication
The young do not know enough to be prudent, and therefore they attempt the impossible—and achieve it, generation after generation.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Youth, Goals, Time, Possibilities, Authors & Writing, Ignorance, Action
Love dies only when growth stops.
—Pearl S. Buck
Topics: Growth
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