It is an unhappy, and yet I fear a true reflection, that they who have uncommon easiness and softness of temper have seldom very noble and nice sensations of soul.
—George Greville, 2nd Earl of Warwick (1746–1816) British Nobleman, Politician
Civility costs nothing.
—Common Proverb
A man who cannot command his temper should not think of being a man of business.
—Earl of Chesterfield (1694–1773) English Statesman, Man of Letters
Temperament is but the atmosphere of character, while its groundwork in nature is fixed and unchangeable.
—Arthur Helps (1813–75) British Essayist, Historian
One who restrains his temper, all his sins meet forgiveness.
—The Talmud Sacred Text of the Jewish Faith
I have never known anyone worth a damn who wasn’t irascible.
—Ezra Pound (1885-1972) American Poet, Translator, Critic
Good temper, like a sunny day, sheds a brightness over everything; it is the sweetener of toil and the soother of disquietude.
—Washington Irving (1783–1859) American Essayist, Biographer, Historian
A fretful temper will divide the closest knot that may be tied, by ceaseless sharp corrosion; a temper passionate and fierce may suddenly your joys disperse at one immense explosion.
—William Cowper (1731–1800) English Anglican Poet, Hymn writer
Take care; you know I am compliance itself, when I am not thwarted! No one more easily led, when I have my own way; but don’t put me in a frenzy.
—Richard Brinsley Sheridan (1751–1816) Irish-born British Playwright, Poet, Elected Rep
Good temper is an estate for life.
—William Hazlitt (1778–1830) English Essayist
Bad temper is its own scourge. Few things are more bitter than to feel bitter. A man’s venom poisons himself more than his victim.
—Charles Buxton (1823–71) British Politician, Writer
If a man has a quarrelsome temper, let him alone. The world will soon find him employment. He will soon meet with some one stronger than himself, who will repay him better than you can. A man may fight duels all his life, if he is disposed to quarrel.
—Richard Cecil
A noble heart, like the sun, showeth its greatest countenance in its lowest estate.
—Philip Sidney (1554–86) English Soldier Poet, Courtier
Most people give off as much heat as a 100 watt bulb, but not as much light.
—Unknown
Many people lose their tempers merely from seeing you keep yours.
—Frank Moore Colby (1865–1925) American Encyclopedia Editor, Essayist
The perverse temper of children is too often corrected with the rod, when the cause lies in fact in a diseased state of body.
—Arthur Helps (1813–75) British Essayist, Historian
Through certain humors or passions, and from temper merely, a man may be completely miserable, let his outward circumstances be ever so fortunate.
—Anthony Ashley Cooper, 1st Earl of Shaftesbury (1621–83) English Statesman
Don’t hit at all if it is honorably possible to avoid hitting, but never hit soft.
—Theodore Roosevelt (1858–1919) American Historian, Political Leader, Explorer
A lady of what is commonly called an uncertain temper—a phrase which being interpreted signifies a temper tolerably certain to make everybody more or less uncomfortable.
—Charles Dickens (1812–70) English Novelist
The happiness and misery of men depend no less on temper than fortune.
—Francois de La Rochefoucauld (1613–80) French Writer
When you’re in the right, you can afford to keep your temper. When in the wrong, you can’t afford to lose it.
—Unknown
Man is a rational animal who always loses his temper when called upon to act in accordance with the dictates of reason.
—Orson Welles (1915–85) American Film Director, Actor
Courtesy of temper, when it is used to veil churlishness of deed, is but a knight’s girdle around the breast of a base clown.
—Walter Scott (1771–1832) Scottish Novelist, Poet, Playwright, Lawyer
Avoid letting temper block progress-keep cool.
—William Feather (1889–1981) American Publisher, Author
Temper, if ungoverned, governs the whole man.
—Anthony Ashley Cooper, 1st Earl of Shaftesbury (1621–83) English Statesman
Men lose their tempers in defending their taste.
—Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803–82) American Philosopher
He was so generally civil that nobody thanked him for it.
—Samuel Johnson (1709–84) British Essayist
Unsociable humors are contracted in solitude, which will, in the end, not fail of corrupting the understanding as well as the manners, and of utterly disqualifying a man for the satisfactions and duties of life. Men must be taken as they are, and we neither make them or ourselves better by flying from or quarreling with them.
—Edmund Burke (1729–97) British Philosopher, Statesman
Those who are surly and imperious to their inferiors are generally humble, flattering, and cringing to their superiors.
—Thomas Fuller (1608–61) English Cleric, Historian
Good temper is one of the greatest preservers of the features.
—William Hazlitt (1778–1830) English Essayist
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