Maturity is achieved when a person postpones immediate pleasures for long-term values.
—Joshua L. Liebman (1907–48) American Rabbi, Author
Maturity is the time of life when, if you had the time, you’d have the time of your life.
—Unknown
When the apple is ripe it will fall.
—Irish Proverb
The only time you really live fully is from thirty to sixty. The young are slaves to dreams; the old servants of regrets. Only the middle-aged have all their five senses in the keeping of their wits.
—Hervey Allen (1889–1949) American Writer
Relationships are the hallmark of the mature person.
—Brian Tracy (b.1944) American Author, Motivational Speaker
My experience is that as soon as people are old enough to know better, they don’t know anything at all.
—Oscar Wilde (1854–1900) Irish Poet, Playwright
I live in that solitude which is painful in youth, but delicious in the years of maturity.
—Albert Einstein (1879–1955) German-born Physicist
Maturity: Be able to stick with a job until it is finished. Be able to bear an injustice without having to get even. Be able to carry money without spending it. Do your duty without being supervised.
—Ask Ann Landers (1918–2002) American Advice Columnist
The rate at which a person can mature is directly proportional to the embarrassment he can tolerate.
—Douglas Engelbart (1925–2013) American Inventor, Computer Scientist
Where id was, there shall ego be.
—Sigmund Freud (1856–1939) Austrian Psychiatrist, Psychoanalytic
Maturity begins when we’re content to feel we’re right about something, without feeling the necessity to prove someone else is wrong.
—Sydney J. Harris (1917–86) American Essayist, Drama Critic
True maturity is only reached when a man realizes he has become a father figure to his girlfriends boyfriends—and he accepts it.
—Larry McMurtry (1936–2021) American Novelist, Screenwriter
Men are but children of a larger growth; our appetites are as apt to change as theirs, and full as craving, too, and full as vain.
—John Dryden (1631–1700) English Poet, Literary Critic, Playwright
I believe a man is born first unto himself—for the happy developing of himself, while the world is a nursery, and the pretty things are to be snatched for, and pleasant things tasted; some people seem to exist thus right to the end. But most are born again on entering manhood; then they are born to humanity, to a consciousness of all the laughing, and the never-ceasing murmur of pain and sorrow that comes from the terrible multitudes of brothers.
—D. H. Lawrence (1885–1930) English Novelist, Playwright, Poet, Essayist, Critic
Man’s maturity: to have regained the seriousness that he had as a child at play.
—Friedrich Nietzsche (1844–1900) German Philosopher, Scholar, Writer
Maturity: among other things, the unclouded happiness of the child at play, who takes it for granted that he is at one with his play-mates.
—Dag Hammarskjold (1905–61) Swedish Statesman, UN Diplomat
Your lordship, though not clean past your youth, have yet some smack of age in you, some relish of the saltiness of time.
—William Shakespeare (1564–1616) British Playwright
Age is the acceptance of a term of years. But maturity is the glory of years.
—Martha Graham (1894–1991) American Choreographer
We have not passed that subtle line between childhood and adulthood until we move from the passive voice to the active voice — that is, until we have stopped saying “It got lost,” and say, “I lost it.”
—Sydney J. Harris (1917–86) American Essayist, Drama Critic
I would say that the surest measure of a man’s or a woman’s maturity is the harmony, style, joy, and dignity he creates in his marriage, and the pleasure and inspiration he provides for his spouse.
—Benjamin Spock (1903–98) American Pediatrician, Author
Part of the reason for the ugliness of adults, in a child’s eyes, is that the child is usually looking upwards, and few faces are at their best when seen from below.
—George Orwell (1903–50) English Novelist, Journalist
One does not get better but different and older and that is always a pleasure.
—Gertrude Stein (1874–1946) American Writer
Maturity is the ability to think, speak and act your feelings within the bounds of dignity. The measure of your maturity is how spiritual you become during the midst of your frustrations.
—Samuel Ullman (1840–1924) American Businessman, Poet
Age is no guarantee of maturity.
—Lawana Blackwell (b.1954) American Author of Historical Fiction
Grown up, and that is a terribly hard thing to do. It is much easier to skip it and go from one childhood to another.
—Unknown
One of the signs of passing youth is the birth of a sense of fellowship with other human beings as we take our place among them.
—Virginia Woolf (1882–1941) English Novelist
By the time a person has achieved years adequate for choosing a direction, the die is cast and the moment has long since passed which determined the future.
—Unknown
The awareness of the ambiguity of one’s highest achievements (as well as one’s deepest failures) is a definite symptom of maturity.
—Paul Tillich (1886–1965) German-born Protestant Theologian
If boyhood and youth are but vanity, must it not be our ambition to become men?
—Vincent van Gogh (1853–90) Dutch Painter
A child becomes an adult when he realizes that he has a right not only to be right but also to be wrong.
—Thomas Szasz (1920–2012) Hungarian-American Psychiatrist, Psychoanalyst
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