All the idols made by man, however terrifying they may be, are in point of fact subordinate to him, and that is why he will always have it in his power to destroy them.
—Simone de Beauvoir
To emancipate woman is to refuse to confine her to the relations she bears to man, not to deny them to her; let her have her independent existence and she will continue nonetheless to exist for him also: mutually recognising each other as subject, each will yet remain for the other an other. The reciprocity of their relations will not do away with the miracles—desire, possession, love, dream, adventure—worked by the division of human beings into two separate categories; and the words that move us—giving, conquering, uniting—will not lose their meaning. On the contrary, when we abolish the slavery of half of humanity, together with the whole system of hypocrisy that it implies, then the ‘division’ of humanity will reveal its genuine significance and the human couple will find its true form.
—Simone de Beauvoir
Topics: Hypocrisy
The ideal of happiness has always taken material form in the house, whether cottage or castle; it stands for permanence and separation from the world.
—Simone de Beauvoir
Topics: Home
Few tasks are more like the torture of Sisyphus than housework, with its endless repetition: the clean becomes soiled, the soiled is made clean, over and over, day after day. The housewife wears herself out marking time: she makes nothing, simply perpetuates the present … Eating, sleeping, cleaning—the years no longer rise up towards heaven, they lie spread out ahead, grey and identical. The battle against dust and dirt is never won.
—Simone de Beauvoir
On the day when it will be possible for woman to love not in her weakness but in strength, not to escape herself but to find herself, not to abase herself but to assert herself—on that day love will become for her, as for man, a source of life and not of mortal danger. In the meantime, love represents in its most touching form the curse that lies heavily upon woman confined in the feminine universe, woman mutilated, insufficient unto herself.
—Simone de Beauvoir
Topics: Men & Women
Society cares for the individual only so far as he is profitable.
—Simone de Beauvoir
Topics: Society
No one is more arrogant toward women, more aggressive or scornful, than the man who is anxious about his virility.
—Simone de Beauvoir
Retirement may be looked upon either as a prolonged holiday or as a rejection, a being thrown on to the scrap-heap.
—Simone de Beauvoir
Topics: Retirement
One is not born a woman, one becomes one.
—Simone de Beauvoir
Topics: Women
I wish that every human life might be pure transparent freedom.
—Simone de Beauvoir
Topics: Freedom
It is in the knowledge of the genuine conditions of our lives that we must draw our strength to live and our reasons for living.
—Simone de Beauvoir
In order for the artist to have a world to express he must first be situated in this world, oppressed or oppressing, resigned or rebellious, a man among men.
—Simone de Beauvoir
Topics: Arts, Artists, Art
Change your life today. Don’t gamble on the future, act now, without delay.
—Simone de Beauvoir
Topics: Change, Miscellaneous, Future
Each of us is responsible for everything and to every human being.
—Simone de Beauvoir
This has always been a man’s world, and none of the reasons that have been offered in explanation have seemed adequate.
—Simone de Beauvoir
Topics: Explanation
I tore myself away from the safe comfort of certainties through my love for truth — and truth rewarded me.
—Simone de Beauvoir
Topics: Truth, Certainty
In the face of an obstacle which is impossible to overcome, stubbornness is stupid.
—Simone de Beauvoir
What is an adult? A child blown up by age.
—Simone de Beauvoir
Topics: Maturity
Those interested in perpetuating present conditions are always in tears about the marvelous past that is about to disappear, without having so much as a smile for the young future.
—Simone de Beauvoir
Topics: Change
Buying is a profound pleasure.
—Simone de Beauvoir
Topics: Shopping
When an individual is kept in a situation of inferiority, the fact is that he does become inferior.
—Simone de Beauvoir
Topics: Feminism, Women
The most mediocre of males feels himself a demigod as compared with women.
—Simone de Beauvoir
Topics: Equality
One is not born a genius. One becomes a genius.
—Simone de Beauvoir
Topics: Genius
All oppression creates a state of war; this is no exception.
—Simone de Beauvoir
Topics: Oppression
If you live long enough, you’ll see that every victory turns into a defeat.
—Simone de Beauvoir
Topics: War, Defeat, Success is not everything, Victory
One is not born, but rather becomes, a woman.
—Simone de Beauvoir
Since it is the Other within us who is old, it is natural that the revelation of our age should come to us from outside—from others. We do not accept it willingly.
—Simone de Beauvoir
Topics: Aging, Age
Man is defined as a human being and woman as a female—whenever she behaves as a human being she is said to imitate the male.
—Simone de Beauvoir
The writer of originality, unless dead, is always shocking, scandalous; novelty disturbs and repels.
—Simone de Beauvoir
Topics: Writing, Originality
Self-knowledge is no guarantee of happiness, but it is on the side of happiness and can supply the courage to fight for it.
—Simone de Beauvoir
Wondering Whom to Read Next?
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- Roland Barthes French Literary Theorist
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- Henri Bergson French Philosopher
- Albert Camus Algerian-born French Philosopher
- Voltaire French Philosopher, Author
- Gaston Bachelard French Philosopher
- Pierre Teilhard de Chardin French Jesuit Scientist
- Marquis de Sade French Writer
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