We do not succeed in changing things according to our desire, but gradually our desire changes.
—Marcel Proust
Topics: Desire, Desires, Change
The opinions which we hold of one another, our relations with friends and kinfolk are in no sense permanent, save in appearance, but are as eternally fluid as the sea itself.
—Marcel Proust
Topics: Opinions
Like many intellectuals, he was incapable of saying a simple thing in a simple way
—Marcel Proust
Topics: Intelligence
Neurosis has an absolute genius for malingering. There is no illness which it cannot counterfeit perfectly. If it is capable of deceiving the doctor, how should it fail to deceive the patient?
—Marcel Proust
Topics: Mental Illness
We must never be afraid to go too far, for success lies just beyond.
—Marcel Proust
When you really love a writer, what you want is an opinion from them on everything in the world.
—Marcel Proust
A woman one loves rarely suffices for all our needs, so we deceive her with another whom we do not love.
—Marcel Proust
Let us leave pretty women to men devoid of imagination.
—Marcel Proust
Topics: Men, Women, Men & Women
The paradoxes of today are the prejudices of tomorrow, since the most benighted and the most deplorable prejudices have had their moment of novelty when fashion lent them its fragile grace.
—Marcel Proust
In a separation it is the one who is not really in love who says the more tender things.
—Marcel Proust
Topics: Love
Memory nourishes the heart, and grief abates.
—Marcel Proust
Topics: Grief
That translucent alabaster of our memories.
—Marcel Proust
Topics: Memory
We are able to find everything in our memory, which is like a dispensary or chemical laboratory in which chance steers our hand sometimes to a soothing drug and sometimes to a dangerous poison.
—Marcel Proust
Topics: Memory
We become moral when we are unhappy.
—Marcel Proust
Topics: Morality, Morals
The features of our face are hardly more than gestures which force of habit made permanent. Nature, like the destruction of Pompeii, like the metamorphosis of a nymph into a tree, has arrested us in an accustomed movement.
—Marcel Proust
Topics: Face, Faces
The fixity of a habit is generally in direct proportion to its absurdity.
—Marcel Proust
Topics: Habit, Charm, Habits
The mistakes made by doctors are innumerable. They err habitually on the side of optimism as to treatment, of pessimism as to the outcome.
—Marcel Proust
Topics: Doctors
Everything we think of as great has come to us from neurotics. It is they and they alone who found religions and create great works of art. The world will never realize how much it owes to them, and what they have suffered in order to bestow their gifts on it.
—Marcel Proust
Topics: Greatness & Great Things
Thanks to art, instead of seeing a single world, our own, we see it multiply until we have before us as many worlds as there are original artists.
—Marcel Proust
Topics: Art
It is desire that engenders belief; if we fail as a rule to take this into account, it is because most of the desires that create beliefs end only with out own life.
—Marcel Proust
Topics: Beliefs
The charms of a passing woman are usually in direct relation to the speed of her passing.
—Marcel Proust
Topics: Women
I understood that all the material of a literary work was in my past life, I understood that I had acquired it in the midst of frivolous amusements, in idleness, in tenderness and in pain, stored up by me without my divining its destination or even its survival, as the seed has in reserve all the ingredients which will nourish the plant.
—Marcel Proust
Topics: Creativity
Habit is a second nature which prevents us from knowing the first, of which it has neither the cruelties nor the enchantments.
—Marcel Proust
People who are not in love fail to understand how an intelligent man can suffer because of a very ordinary woman. This is like being surprised that anyone should be stricken with cholera because of a creature so insignificant as the comma bacillus.
—Marcel Proust
Topics: Love
Let us leave the beautiful women to men with no imagination.
—Marcel Proust
Topics: Women
There’s nothing like desire to prevent the things one says from having any resemblance to the things in one’s mind.
—Marcel Proust
Topics: Desire, Desires
The human plagiarism which is most difficult to avoid, for individuals… is the plagiarism of ourselves.
—Marcel Proust
Topics: Plagiarism
The only real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes, but in having new eyes, in seeing the universe with the eyes of another, of hundreds of others, in seeing the hundreds of universes that each of them sees.
—Marcel Proust
Topics: Discovery, Vision, Attitude, Age, Perspective
Everything great in the world is done by neurotics; they alone founded our religions and created our masterpieces.
—Marcel Proust
We are healed of a suffering only by experiencing it to the full.
—Marcel Proust
Topics: Suffering, Difficulties, Adversity
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