America is an enormous frosted cupcake in the middle of millions of starving people.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: The Poor, Poverty
Without leaps of imagination, or dreaming, we lose the excitement of possibilities. Dreaming, after all, is a form of planning.
—Gloria Steinem
If women have young children, they are one man away from welfare.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Welfare
Self-esteem is the basis of any democracy
—Gloria Steinem
I do not like to write – I like to have written.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Writing
The family is the basic cell of government: it is where we are trained to believe that we are human beings or that we are chattel, it is where we are trained to see the sex and race divisions and become callous to injustice even if it is done to ourselves, to accept as biological a full system of authoritarian government.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Family
Clinging to the past is the problem. Embracing change is the answer.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Change, Past, The Past
No man can call himself liberal, or radical, or even a conservative advocate of fair play, if his work depends in any way on the unpaid or underpaid labor of women at home, or in the office.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Sex
The future depends entirely on what each of us does every day.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Future
For me, writing is the only thing that passes the three tests of metier: (1) when I’m doing it, I don’t feel that I should be doing something else instead; (2) it produces a sense of accomplishment and, once in a while, pride; and (3) it’s frightening.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Aptness, Writers, Authors & Writing, Appropriateness, Success, Writing
Men should think twice before making widow hood woman’s only path to power.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Power
Hope is a very unruly emotion.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Hope
Childbirth is more admirable than conquest, more amazing than self-defense, and as courageous as either one.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Defense
Planning ahead is a measure of class. The rich and even the middle class plan for future generations, but the poor can plan ahead only a few weeks or days.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Planning
The only thing I can’t stand is discomfort.
—Gloria Steinem
However sugarcoated and ambiguous, every form of authoritarianism must start with a belief in some group’s greater right to power, whether that right is justified by sex, race, class, religion or all four. However far it may expand, the progression inevitably rests on unequal power and airtight roles within the family.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Authority, Control
The moment we find the reason behind an emotion … the wall is breached, and the positive memories it has kept from us return too. That’s why it pays to ask those painful questions. The answers can set you free.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Questioning
Any woman who chooses to behave like a full human being should be warned that the armies of the status quo will treat her as something of a dirty joke. That’s their natural and first weapon. She will need her sisterhood.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Sex
We can tell our values by looking at our checkbook stubs.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Value, Money
Evil is obvious only in retrospect.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Evil
For women… bras, panties, bathing suits, and other stereotypical gear are visual reminders of a commercial, idealized feminine image that our real and diverse female bodies can’t possibly fit. Without these visual references, each individual woman’s body demands to be accepted on its own terms. We stop being comparatives. We begin to be unique.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Fashion, Dress
I have yet to hear a man ask for advice on how to combine marriage and a career.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Career, Advice
I’ve yet to be on a campus where most women weren’t worrying about some aspect of combining marriage, children, and a career. I’ve yet to find one where many men were worrying about the same thing
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Worry
Empathy is the most radical of human emotions.
—Gloria Steinem
The authority of any governing institution must stop at its citizen’s skin.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Mankind, Man, Body, Authority
Far too many people are looking for the right person, instead of trying to be the right person.
—Gloria Steinem
Power can be taken, but not given. The process of the taking is empowerment in itself.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Power
By the year 2000 we will, I hope, raise our children to believe in human potential, not God.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: God, Potential
The act of acting morally is behaving as if everything we do matters.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Ethics
I believe a unique core self is born into every human being; the result of millennia of environment adn heredity combined in an unpredictable way that could never happen before or again.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Being True to Yourself
Pornography is about dominance. Erotica is about mutuality.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Pornography
It’s clear that most American children suffer too much mother and too little father.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Fathers, Parenting, Parents
If women are supposed to be less rational and more emotional at the beginning of our menstrual cycle when the female hormone is at its lowest level, then why isn’t it logical to say that, in those few days, women behave the most like the way men behave all month long?
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Women
The first problem for all of us, men and women, is not to learn, but to unlearn.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Learning
For much of the female half of the world, food is the first signal of our inferiority. It lets us know that our own families may consider female bodies to be less deserving, less needy, less valuable.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Food, Eating
If the shoe doesn’t fit, must we change the foot?
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Change
We teach what we need to learn.
—Gloria Steinem
Law and justice are not always the same. When they aren’t, destroying the law may be the first step toward changing it.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Justice
Women may be the one group that grows more radical with age.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Aging
A woman without a man is like a fish without a bicycle.
—Gloria Steinem
Topics: Men & Women, Men, Women
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