Inspirational Quotations

Inspirational Quotations on Candor

There is an unseemly exposure of the mind, as well as of the body.
William Hazlitt (1778–1830) English Essayist

Candor is the brightest gem of criticism.
Benjamin Franklin (1706–90) American Political Leader, Inventor, Diplomat

‘Tis the privilege of friendship to talk nonsense, and have her nonsense respected.
Charles Lamb (1775–1834) British Essayist, Poet

If all hearts were open and all desires known—as they would be if people showed their souls—how many gapings, sighings, clenched fists, knotted brows, broad grins, and red eyes should we see in the market-place!
Thomas Hardy (1840–1928) English Novelist, Poet

Let us not be ashamed to speak what we shame not to think.
Michel de Montaigne (1533–92) French Essayist

Examine what is said, not him who speaks.
Arabic Proverb

Don’t tell your friends their social faults; they will cure the fault and never forgive you.
Logan Pearsall Smith (1865–1946) American-British Essayist, Bibliophile

Those that lack friends to open themselves unto are cannibals of their own hearts.
Francis Bacon (1561–1626) English Philosopher

The truth that is suppressed by friends is the readiest weapon of the enemy.
Robert Louis Stevenson (1850–94) Scottish Novelist

Not to expose your true feelings to an adult seems to be instinctive from the age of seven or eight onwards.
George Orwell (1903–50) English Novelist, Journalist

Some so speak in exaggerations and superlatives that we need to make a large discount from their statements before we can come at their real meaning.
Tryon Edwards (1809–94) American Theologian, Author

I lay it down as a fact that if all men knew what others say of them, there would not be four friends in the world.
Blaise Pascal (1623–62) French Mathematician, Physicist, Theologian

It’s important to our friends to believe that we are unreservedly frank with them, and important to the friendship that we are not.
Mignon McLaughlin (1913–83) American Journalist, Author

I can promise to be candid, though I may not be impartial.
Johann Wolfgang von Goethe (1749–1832) German Poet

A friend should be a master at guessing and keeping still.
Friedrich Nietzsche (1844–1900) German Philosopher, Scholar, Writer

We want all our friends to tell us our bad qualities; it is only the particular ass that does so whom we can’t tolerate.
William James (1842–1910) American Philosopher, Psychologist, Physician

To be candid, in Middlemarch phraseology, meant, to use an early opportunity of letting your friends know that you did not take a cheerful view of their capacity, their conduct, or their position; and a robust candor never waited to be asked for its opinion.
George Eliot (Mary Anne Evans) (1819–80) English Novelist

Friends, if we be honest with ourselves, we shall be honest with each other.
George MacDonald (1824–1905) Scottish Novelist, Lecturer, Poet

You may tell a man thou art a fiend, but not your nose wants blowing; to him alone who can bear a thing of that kind, you may tell all.
Johann Kaspar Lavater (1741–1801) Swiss Theologian, Poet

Only friends will tell you the truths you need to hear to make … your life bearable.
Francine du Plessix Gray (1930–2019) French-born American Writer, Literary Critic

It is great and manly to disdain disguise; it shows our spirit, and prove our strength.
Edward Young (1683–1765) English Poet

Flattery makes friends, truth enemies.
Spanish Proverb

Gracious to all, to none subservient, Without offense he spoke the word he meant.
Thomas Bailey Aldrich (1836–1907) American Writer, Poet, Critic, Editor

Friendship may sometimes step a few paces in advance of truth.
Walter Savage Landor (1775–1864) English Writer, Poet

The diligent fostering of a candid habit of mind, even in trifles, is a matter of high moment both to character and opinions.
John Saul Howson

One’s friends are that part of the human race with which one can be human.
George Santayana (1863–1952) Spanish-American Poet, Philosopher

The more we love our friends, the less we flatter them; it is by excusing nothing that pure love shows itself.
Moliere (1622–73) French Playwright

What a wonderful thing it is to have a good friend. He identities your innermost desires, and spares you the embarrassment of disclosing them to him yourself.
Jean de La Fontaine (1621–95) French Poet, Short Story Writer

There is not so good an understanding between any two, but the exposure by the one of a serious fault in the other will produce a misunderstanding in proportion to its heinousness.
Henry David Thoreau (1817–62) American Philosopher

A friend is a person with whom I may be sincere. Before him I may think aloud. I am arrived at last in the presence of a man so real and equal, that I may drop even those undermost garments of dissimulation, courtesy, and second thought, which men never put off, and may deal with him with the simplicity and wholeness with which one chemical atom meets another.
Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803–82) American Philosopher

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