What’s true is that everyone is uncomfortable with expressing anger and being critical. Anger and criticism generates rejection. And everyone hates rejection.
We are the offspring of approval-seekers. We want approval so badly that we vacillate between conforming to get it and standing out (being outstanding) to get it.
Schools currently excel in encouraging children to express opinions, but are deficient in encouraging children to say, for example, “Oh, that’s different from my perspective … tell me more.”
Male bashing is everywhere. It would be a mistake to view the current situation as another skirmish in the war between the sexes. Women have been doing the shooting, and men have been burying their heads in the sand, hoping the bullets will miss.
Topics: Men & Women
There should be neither a women’s movement blaming men, nor a men’s movement blaming women, but a gender liberation movement freeing both sexes from the rigid roles of the past toward more flexible roles for their future.
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- Jane Fonda American Actress
- Erica Jong American Novelist, Poet
- Robin Morgan American Activist
- Ayaan Hirsi Ali Dutch Politician, Activist
- Cynthia Ozick American Novelist, Essayist
- Robert H. Shaffer American Educator
- Audre Lorde American Poet, Feminist